Angels Unaware

On Wednesday evenings at our church I am leading in a study of the last chapters of the epistles of the New Testament. A scripture we considered tonight states: "Do not forget to entertain strangers, for by so doing some people have entertained angels without knowing it." - Hebrews 13:2 (NIV). I explained that the writer, most likely, had in mind stories from the Old Testament of visits by angels, including encounters by Abraham, Gideon, and Manoah. And then I asked the small group if anyone had an angel encounter they would like to share. One man told of a miraculous escape from injury in a terrible auto crash, being convinced that a divine presence kept him from being thrown from the car. Another spoke of her "angelic mother", not exactly what I was looking for.

It was a nice little study. We dismissed, and visited for a while.

A teenager told me there was a strange man at the door of the church wanting to speak with me. I walked out to see a rather dishevelled and dirty-looking guy wearing a baseball cap. We talked for a bit. I've heard his story before; the details will vary, but it always involves hard luck and a plea for help. He told me he was a master plumber who had gotten a bum check for his last job, totalling $1600. His truck was broken. His wife died of cancer two years ago. And, his 13-year-old son had told him he would not go back to school because he had no clean clothes.

I told the man that we channel our benevolence funds through the Hands of Christ, a local ministry, and he would have to go to them for help. Then he asked if I had some money to loan; I told him it was our policy never to give out cash. We were at an impasse.

I said, "I tell you what- I'll give you a ride home, and we will pick up some groceries along the way." He hung around while I locked up the church. Then he and I jumped in the car and headed for the store. And, we talked. I found out this man, early in the day, had left home and just started walking. He walked, and walked, and finally ended up at my church just as services were dismissed. He seemed articulate, sincere, and gentle.

I got him $35 in groceries, gave him $20 to do his laundry, and a ride home. His home was humble at best. He said he would pay me back, and I told him to just pass it on to someone else in need. I offered some advice, encouraged him to give me a call tomorrow and we would see about hooking him up with some more substantial help. We stood on his porch as I prayed for him. I told him, "James, I love you. And I'm going to be quite disappointed if I never see you again." He was grateful, and misty-eyed.

He could be a liar and a user.

He could be a decent guy, just down and out.

He is a person of worth, made in the image of God.

And, he could be an angel.

Trivial Pursuits Of A Shallow Mind

Life is rather busy at this time, and many quite important things are going on. In the midst of it all, I find myself spending far too much time thinking about some strange and trivial matters. So, I will share a few of these with you, in no particular order of importance.

*It really bothers me to see men leave the public restroom without washing their hands. I've been studying the issue, and would say that as high as 40% do so. Now it is possible for a man to do his “bathroom things” without actually compromising the cleanliness of his hands. But not probable. And I think about what these men do with the same hands: grasp the hands of others, handle money, eat food, and open doors. The latter is a real problem for me, because even though I religiously wash my hands, I still have to touch the knob to the bathroom door. Sometimes I'll open it with a paper towel, and I've even been known to use my foot. And I know it is a bit judgmental, but my opinion of a colleague/associate inevitably is lowered when I know he commits this foible.

*My dog one time “went potty” in the church. It was long ago, at a faraway church which will go nameless. I had to make a quick trip to my office, and he always loved to go places with me, so I let him enter the building and run the hallways while I spent a few minutes at my desk. A couple of days later, the custodian with great gravity told me he found poop on the hallway carpet, and it looked like dog poop. I panicked, fearing I was about to get into big trouble. Then I thought of some extremely out-of-control kids who attended lots of activities at the church. “I know the Martin kids were roaming the church the other day”, I replied with equal concern. And he bought it! From then on, the custodian kept a close eye on those particular kids. I lied, to save my dog from embarrassment. And it has been bothering me for a long time. Thanks for letting me confess.

*The scripture reading for Sunday morning included the word “breasts”. It is a perfectly good word, I know. But I was really uncomfortable with the public verbalizing of the word. I practiced, but still was self-conscious. I think I read it smoothly, and hopefully without undue emphasis. And I know church folk are really just regular people. But I still fear that such words in church are shocking to some. I hope no hearts were caused to skip a beat, or children unduly influenced. Perhaps I should have used the KJV, which substitutes the word “paps”. Yeah, right.

Perhaps I should erase this post?


Madonna...Who Is That?

Madonna is now being "crucified" upon a glitzy cross, including a fake crown of thorns, as a centerpiece of her current concert tour. Christians are condemning her behavior as blasphemous.

Such contemptuous treatment of that which others consider to be sacred could certainly be interpreted as blasphemy.

Here is what I think is happening: Once again, the Christian community is being manipulated by an amoral entertainer for personal gain. And we play the "sucker" well. Madonna has been around for quite some time. She has to be near my age; I remember her antics when I began pastoring a little church in Michigan in the mid-80's. As I recall, she was at one time a cheerleader at one of the Detroit-area high schools. Her road to stardom, to me, is amazing but also understandable. She's attractive but certainly not beautiful. Her voice is middle-of-the-road at best. But, oh can she use sex and shock to entertain. And such is most effective when good, church-going conservative Christians loudly voice their complaints. She wants such attention, smartly using it to line her pockets.

So, what's a well-meaning Christian to do when someone like Madonna provokes his faith? Or, when Andres Serrano- another pitiful excuse for an artist, suspends a crucifix in a jar of urine and calls it "art"? I say, "Nothing". Do not lend an ounce of credibility, let alone dignity, with an iota of public response. When the subject is broached, at best just shake your head and roll your eyes.

What Madonna is truly selling is not talent, but shock. The best way to marginalize her impact is to refuse to play her game. Just yawn.

The Disturbing Message Of Ezekiel

My personal Bible reading for the last few mornings has been from the book of Ezekiel. It is a book of dark forebodings of God’s impending judgment upon Israel for their sins. What strikes me, even with a cursory reading, are the parallels for modern-day America. I’m not usually a "gloom and doom" prophet, but it seems too obvious that we are on a collision course, socially and religiously.

I’m reading Ezekiel 22. Consider these clips from the Good News Bible translation, and how the message parallels with today. My brief comments follow the verses.

(Eze 22:5) Countries nearby and countries far away sneer at you because of your lawlessness. (clear parallel to the international situation of today)

(Eze 22:6) All Israel's leaders trust in their own strength and commit murder. (how foolish, as often does the Bible tell us, to ever think one’s own strength is sufficient)

(Eze 22:7) None of you in the city honor your parents. You cheat foreigners and take advantage of widows and orphans. (mistreatment of the weak and helpless is always grounds for God’s wrath)

(Eze 22:8) You have no respect for the holy places, and you don't keep the Sabbath. (daring to think God and holiness are optional for life)

(Eze 22:9) Some of your people tell lies about others in order to have them put to death. Some of them eat sacrifices offered to idols. Some are always satisfying their lusts. (Having a fellow human-being put to death is a most serious matter. I cringe as our politicians, daily, try to outdo one another by continually stating how tough they will be with applying the death penalty)

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(Eze 22:25)
The leaders are like lions roaring over the animals they have killed. They kill the people, take all the money and property they can get, and by their murders leave many widows. (Their politics is all about the accumulation and retention of personal wealth, even at the expense of the most vulnerable.)

(Eze 22:26)
The priests break my law and have no respect for what is holy. They make no distinction between what is holy and what is not. They do not teach the difference between clean and unclean things, and they ignore the Sabbath. As a result the people of Israel do not respect me. (A people miserably failed by their so-called spiritual leaders. Why should the man-on-the-street have reverence for God, when the spiritual leadership does not?)

(Eze 22:27)
The government officials are like wolves tearing apart the animals they have killed. They commit murder in order to get rich. (What’s the value of a human being? Apparently nothing, if he/she gets in the way of power and money)

(Eze 22:28)
The prophets have hidden these sins like workers covering a wall with whitewash. They see false visions and make false predictions. They claim to speak the word of the Sovereign LORD, but I, the LORD, have not spoken to them. (The public religion is all about pretence, just smoke and mirrors. Just spiritual leaders spouting hot air.)

(Eze 22:29)
The wealthy cheat and rob. They mistreat the poor and take advantage of foreigners. (We mouth our "complaints" about illegals and foreign imports. The reality is that so much of our wealth is built upon the broken backs of the world’s poor. And, God sees and knows.)

(Eze 22:30)
I looked for someone who could build a wall, who could stand in the places where the walls have crumbled and defend the land when my anger is about to destroy it, but I could find no one. (Where is the real prophet, the true messenger of God? The reason God is averting judgment is for the message to be proclaimed. But there is only silence.)

(Eze 22:31)
So I will turn my anger loose on them, and like a fire I will destroy them for what they have done." The Sovereign LORD has spoken. (How disturbing. And, I believe, quite applicable to this day and time.)

If Israel did not get by with such idolatry of money and power, mistreatment of others, and disdain for God- and if indeed there is a holy and righteous God, then how in the world can we continue to survive as a society and political entity, if we do not change?

If It Sounds Too-Good-To-Be-True....Please buy it from me!

PastorDave's Portable  Cheap "KoolerAire" A/C For Sale

Included is a link to an item I have for sale on E-Bay.  It is a Portable Air Conditioner.

The A/C broke on my old van, and the repair shop estimated $1100 for repair.  That’s more than the vehicle is worth, and certainly more than I have unless I once again pull out the Visa, and I really need to give that little plastic card a rest.  So I hit the internet looking for alternatives.  I have learned you can find almost anything on the web, and specifically on E-Bay; you should see my styrofoam turd, and Commodore 64 disc drive.

This unique item gained my attention.  I carefully studied the ads and read all kinds of descriptions.  Interestingly, it never actually claimed to be a sufficient substitute for an auto A/C.  The ads effectively tantalized this gullible customer, and left plenty of room for imagination.  I forked out around $50, including cost, shipping, and cooler.

I filled the cooler with ice, snugly placed the “A/C” over the top, and plugged it into my cigarette lighter.  The motor whirred and indeed cool air was produced.  However, the amount and intensity of cool air will, in no way, sufficiently cool a hot car.  Heck, it probably would not cool a doll house.

So, I’ve been stuck with this thing for several months.  I’ve kept it upon a shelf in my office, as a reminder that I can make stupid decisions, and also as a reminder to be very careful about offers that seem too-good-to-be-true.

I can’t blame the sleazy company.  I begrudgingly admire that they can make money with such a product, outwitting college grads and professionals like myself.  The owner is probably some “doofus” laughing all the way to the bank.

Here is a typical scenario of human nature & behaviour: 
*I see a supposed need in my life.
*I encounter what I think to be the answer to that need.
*In considering that “answer”, I paint a far too rosy picture of how it can benefit me, far beyond anything the product claims to promise.
*I gladly invest a lot in obtaining the product.
*Inevitably, I become disappointed.
*Typically, I blame the product.

And, if I study the whole matter truthfully, I have to admit that the fault lies in how I allowed myself to develop impossible expectations of something.  Or Someone.

This is true with items on E-Bay.
Isn’t this also true with some of our expectations of God?

Come on over to E-Bay.  Buy this A/C.  It’ll cool your entire house (by 1/100th of 1 degree) and save some money (for me).

Phone Call From The Pope

(Note: This is written with apologies to all Catholics, Muslims, Protestants, and Surrogate)

Phone rings

PD - Just a bit sleepy. It's 3 in the morning. "Hello?"
Pope - "God bless you my son."
PD - "What?"
Pope - "This is the Pope. You know, in the succession of St. Peter, the head of the Church."
PD - "What? Donnie, is this you. Man, these kinds of things were funny twenty years ago. Heck, they're even a bit funny at a decent time of day. But, 3 in the morning? Man, you've got to get a life, and stop calling me."

Hangs up the phone and crawls back into bed.

Phone rings again.

PD - "Hello."
Pope - "Hello, PastorDave my son. I need some help."
PD - "You're the Pope? Prove it."

He proceeds, in the next five minutes, to say "God bless you" in nine different languages., name the last 34 Saints, and offer to me absolution of sins. I ask about indulgences, and he says they haven't sold them for about four centuries. I'm convinced.

PD - "So, Leo, why are you calling?"
Pope - "Dave, don't you think you are being a bit familiar? Most call me 'Your Highness'."
PD - "Well, I'm a Protestant. You know, Martin Luther and all that stuff. Besides, what are you going to do- consign me to Purgatory?"
Pope - "Dave, you really should keep up with Church news a little better. No more Purgatory!"
PD - "Oh yeah. I keep up with church news. Ms. Bessie has a hangnail, and Laura Green just had another kid. Oh, and the Jones family is traveling to Arkansas. They're all on the Prayer List."

We chitchat for a while, talk about some of the difficulties of pastoring a church in this day and age, and then we get down to the real purpose for the call. 

Pope - "I hear you sometimes offer some pretty good advice."
PD - "I'm flattered, Rev. Pope....oops, Your Pontiff."
Pope - "I've gotten the whole Muslim world mad at me. It really wasn't intended."
PD - "I know what it's like. Sometimes I just get too busy, and do not do a very good job of preparing a sermon. Then I end up saying some really dumb things."
Pope - "Yeah, but when you speak on behalf of the Church, you're not infallible."

PD - Let's see if I understand this matter- We have a world populated by fanatic Muslims, ready to riot and kill whenever they consider their faith to be insulted. Here you are, the leader and spokesperson for the Catholic Church. You are known to be highly intelligent and worldly wise. And what do you do? You quote some obscure theologian from hundreds of years ago in a clearly provocative insult to these people. And now they are angry, and want to kill Christians, and you seem perplexed?"
Pope - "Yeah, that's about it. What went wrong?"

PD - "Maybe you ought to be quoting Jesus, instead of some two-bit theologian from 400 years ago. Perhaps something from the Sermon On The Mount, something about love. I believe He had a lot to say about love."
Pope- "PD, you know you are right. I wish I had though about that."

PD - "Something else: These people are convinced that Christians hate them. They equate, rightly or wrongly, Western warfare as religious imperialism. What you have done is stoke the fire."
Pope - "So, should I apologize?"
PD - "How can you? Remember, you're infallible."

Pope - "I was thinking about holding a Mass in Iraq..."
PD - "Not a good idea, sir. May I suggest a long vacation in Tuscany. Maybe some golf, some nice restaurants, perhaps you could bless some babies or something."

Pope - "Dave, my son, you have great wisdom. Perhaps you would be interested in being the next Bishop of Atlanta?"
PD - "Just one little problem, sir. Remember, I'm Baptist."
Pope - "Oops, I forgot. Forgive me. Wait a minute..."

Click. The phone went dead.

The Pope has not called back.

 

Skylar Has Something To Say

Below is a direct link to a one minute video of my 6-month-old grandaughter.  A recent picture is also to the right.  Please look and listen, and meet my pride and joy: 

One Minute Video Of Beautiful Skylar

Obviously she had something important to say.  There is little need for me to interpret or elaborate.  I'll simply give her the forum for a moment, and trust you get the message.  I think what she has to say is quite clear.

We have the joy of spending time with her almost daily.  As usual, I've been making some pictures- and admittedly, they no doubt excite me more than you.  What can I say...I'm a doting grandparent.

This video was taken with my new camera, a Kodak EasyShare CD33.  It's 3.1 MP (plenty enough for me) and boasts some impressive features: video & sound, all kinds of settings, 3X optical focus lens, it takes an sd card (I use a 1 GB card with ample room), etc.  I'm impressed.  I bought it from TigerDirect, one of my favorite online electronics stores.  Best of all it cost $59!  I think it is a great deal; maybe you should check it out.

Can any of you t-blog technophiles tell me how I can embed this video in a post, instead of the sidebar?  Your help would be greatly appreciated.

This kid is pretty neat, don't you think?

 

Good Neighbour Blogging

I really enjoy blogging.  I do not write the best of blogs, nor am I the most astute with giving comments to others, but I continue to be energized by the ongoing interaction of ideas and personalities that makes up our little corner of the blogging community. I read lots of blogs.  My general rule, whenever I write a post, is to afterwards read and comment on at least ten other blogs.  And I also make sure to read and leave comments for all who take the time to comment on what I have written. 

And I know when I encounter a quality blogging experience.  So I would like to pass along some thoughts I have about what makes for good blogging.  These are personal, and of course far from being a complete list.  So...What do you you think?  And, what would you add to the list?

Guidelines for Good Blogging:

(1)  Understand that not all bloggers are interested in interaction and free exchange with others. And you and I should respect those who blog with a different premise. Some use their blog as a personal journal, and interaction is not important.Others write and interact exclusively for their friends, and aren't interested in a careful exchange of ideas with outsiders.  When we run across these folks, we need to try to be good neighbors and respect their parameters.

(2)  Develop a premise/theme for your blogging, and especially write along those matters. Not exclusively. For me, spiritual and religious issues are quite important. Specifically, I am conservative of outlook. But, also a bit disillusioned with much to do with the church and Christianity. So, I intentionally seek to be a critical pundit. Sometimes it works.

(3) Be concise and be brief; not necessarily like myself.  Generally, I do not read "marathon& quot; blogs that go on-and-on. I say this knowing that sometimes my writings are too long. Interestingly, the less time I invest in developing what I write, the longer and more meandering it becomes.

(4)  Stay away from "cut-and-paste" blogging. Now you can use another writing as a springboard for thoughful comment. But most of us are fully capable of reading the professional writers for ourselves. We want to know what you think- your unique insights, ideas, humor, anger, etc.

(5)  Be civil. I think this is an important consideration especially for an open forum like t-blog. We should be able to discuss all kinds of issues without resorting to name-calling and threats. Really, why should a mature person feel threatened by an idea, even one that is quite different and challenging to what he/she believes? Listen. Be thoughtful. Be kind. Never be insistent.

(6)  Use some common sense. Even the greatest disbeliever, most likely, would not walk into a church meeting and spout a string of invectives. Thus, when interacting with a devoutly religious person, civility calls for you to speak/write appropriately. Conversely, if you know from the start that a blogger has a real problem with religion and religious people, then you should not go onto his/her blog with a critical spirit.  Do not insist that a fellow blogger be like yourself.  Enjoy his/her diffences, and learn from that person.  And, kindness is always appropriate, in all blogging interactions.

(7)  Don't preach. Especially I am speaking to myself. Now I'll sometimes give a sermon outline, or address a matter from an unapologetic spiritual point of view. Not regularly, because my blogging is not intended as a ministry, but a diversion and personal growth experience. But I'm saying we should not go around offering little mini-sermons to fellow bloggers. Feel free, if necessary, to respond to my comments with a DP- I'll get the message!

Well, I've now broken guideline # 3!  

What do you have to add?

Do Dogs Go To Heaven?

My good friends recently lost their beloved pet of 15 years. As the health of the little dog deteriorated in the last several years, they clung tenaciously to her with repeated trips to the vet, and accompanying medications and medical procedures. Misty was not designed to live any longer, so one day she passed away. My friends were truly broken. This dog had been a part of their family, far more than just an animal. Now almost a year later, they still get teary-eyed when the subject comes up. These people are educated, intelligent, and quite rational. And they insist that Misty has gone to heaven. They will entertain no other consideration, no other way to consider the matter.

In the understanding of the Christian faith, human beings are unique in being made “in the image of God”. Such is not ascribed to any other element of God's creation. Among other things, this at least means that we are infused with the quality of eternity. A human does not cease to exist at the time of death; his spirit moves on to a higher realm.

In considering the fate of animals, some will quote the passages from the Old Testament which refer to an idyllic time when God's rule is complete, when “the lion will lie down with the lamb...”. In my opinion, this is not meant to give details of the afterlife, but to describe it as a time of peace and tranquility. 

It seems out of character, to me, when I hear a fellow-Christian insist that beloved pets just die, and that's it. And the case is so often made with so little feeling; a few scripture quotations and a smug blink of the eye. I wonder, how can you ascribe any specific pet (or, more importantly, any specific person) to an eternity that excludes God's love?

Here is my case for belief that beloved pets will be in heaven. It is not a scriptural argument. It is based upon my understanding of the nature of a loving God. I am convinced that God loves His children with a greater depth and intensity than we can fully comprehend. I think, in heaven, we will all be amazed at the extent of God's love from the very beginning. And, the afterlife experience prepared for us will be an expression of His complete love for us. We will find that the symbolic language of the Bible has barely done it justice. Heaven will be the complete and everlasting experience of pure love.

All are made by God to be unique, in life experience as well as personality. For some, that uniqueness has involved a deep connection with a beloved pet. So, for that person, surely heaven would include fellowship with such a dear friend. When my friends get to heaven, Misty will be there, all frisky and bouncing and ready for the reunion. I believe God will arrange it, because love is what He knows best.  With a big smile, I believe Jesus will enjoy watching that reunion.

Blackie will be there.  He and I explored ridges and woods as a kid.  I wonder if he will still grin, like that silly dog did forty years ago?

And Bessie will be there, and this time frisky- not addled by old age and disease.  Three weeks ago my big old brother cried like a baby when she passed away.  It seems to me, if someone "made in God's image" can love a hound dog like that, then God can too.

“And now abideth faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.” Even the love of a pet!

Bizarro Mom & Dad, Part II

It was time to go out to eat, and I quickly volunteered to drive.  I know the driving habits of my folks, and so I always volunteer to drive.  Nothing against them; I just want to live.

A couple of years ago, Mom and her then-husband Len decided to take a drive.  One thing lead to another, and the adventuresome couple ended up out on the mountain on a barren stretch of road, far from home.  It was the middle of the night as a police officer pulled them over.  Or, maybe they were steaming up the windows beneath a shade tree- I wouldn't put it past them.  Len related the rest of the story to me.  The officer gave the confused driver directions how to get home.  He then said something like, "You know, elderly folks like yourselves really shouldn't be out this late at night."  My mom, who had been quietly listening up until this point, quickly quipped, "You know, a young man like yourself really should kiss my a--."  Len told me the officer's face turned beet-red.  He promptly walked back to his car and drove away.

I was thinking about this as we pulled into the local store to get some batteries.  John insisted upon buying the batteries, but he couldn't seem to open his wallet.  Finally he flung the wallet at me, and said, "Get some money out for the batteries."  I opened the billfold to find he must have had at least a dozen hundred dollar bills.  It is scary to think he walks around with such a load of cash.  I thought about giving some advice, but stopped before the words came out.  I'm pretty sure John likel y carries something else to give him confidence in deterring would-be thieves.  My mom likes to hide money all around the house, and she probably has a cache in her purse similar to that of her husband.  I thought about the measly little $20 bill in my wallet.

We went to the restaurant.  John paid for the meal, and I did not protest.  The meal was pretty good, even with the occasional belch from my new father-in-law.  My mom's familiar habit is to gather all the extra sugar packs, and put them into her purse.  She went a little extra this time.  She grabbed a porkchop, wrapped it in a napkin, and put it in her purse.  I was hoping no one was watching.  Today I told a couple of friends about mom's peculiar habits, and it seems their moms do similar things.  Maybe I should start taking extra food home in my pockets.

When it was time for me to go, John presented me with a gift.  It was a big, heavy, cement fire hydrant.  The thing must have weighed fifty pounds.  I was thinking, "What do I do with something like that?"  But I graciously accepted it, and dragged it out to my car.  I'd rather have it than one of his prized commodes, described in the previous post.  It now sits in my den, since I cannot bring myself to throw it away.  I'll post a picture, so you can admire this work of art.  I will probably figure out a way to make it into a lamp or coffee table.

So, God bless John and Virginia, parents of a proud (and even a little jealous) PastorDave.  I'm hoping to one day be young like them.

Continued Tales Of "Bizarro Mom & Dad"

Today I made my monthly three-hour drive to go see my mom. These trips are always an adventure, and this one was no exception. Mom is 87; so is her new husband, John. Two weeks ago I learned, after the fact, they were both in the hospital. I could not make out exactly what was going on. Mom does not hear conversations on the phone very well, and just responds to what she thinks she is hearing. She might talk about okra one moment and nuclear fission the next. But I did hear something about heart and kidney failure. Immediately after hanging up the phone I called my brother, who had gone to see about her, and learned she was in the hospital with a urinary tract infection. She is still convinced it was heart failure, and who am I to argue? And John, her husband, well...I'm still not sure. He tells me he is a Federal Marshall, so maybe he was injured in a shootout? I hope you can discern they are both rather eccentric.

I pulled into their drive around noontime, and they both met me at the car with excitement. They had a new "investment" to show me. We dottered around to the backyard, and John pointed with a smile toward an old, rickety pull trailer with tarps tied over a big bundle of something. With hesitation I asked what was under those tarps.

"Commodes", he said with vigor. "Son, I've bought 20 commodes. I found a great deal, and cleared them out. I figure I can make back my investment when I sell the first one. Then, I'm going to make a lot of money."

Did I tell you John is eccentric?

It seems he found a geriatric home that was clearing out it's portable toilets, and walkers, and so he struck up a deal with the proprieter. I think he and mom intend to have a yard sale, and line these things along the street with "For Sale" signs on the lids. I'll be sure to find some reason to not be able to help.

But you know, these two newlyweds are doing fine. They got out of the hospital a few days ago, and proceeded to go to the Bingo Hall that night. John signed up for a cell phone, and after about a month he has decided he does not need it. He does not comprehend he is committed to a 2-year contract. So he enjoys bickering with the collectors who call on the phone. He asked one to please give him their address. When the guy asked why, he said because he wanted to go over there and knock his head off. The collector hung up. I laughed as he told me the story, thinking about this little-old man, who can barely walk, fulfilling such a bold threat.

He gives my mom everything she wants. He refuses to argue with her. He treats her like a queen. So, in my book, he can be as eccentric as he would like.

I'll tell you more tomorrow.

Musings Concerning Cow Manure

It is amazing some of the things for which people are willing to pay money.  Cow manure is an example.  They shovel it up, put it in a bag, and then folks like myself come along and pay good money.  It is gross.  It stinks.  And it is valuable, because it makes things grow.  It is the best thing you can put on plants and grass to make them reach proper maturity.

Trials of life are like cow manure.  They stink.  But they have a usefulness, because they can bring about growth and maturity in our lives.  I do not wish for anyone to be dumped upon; but, it is going to happen.  Guaranteed.  That's life.  Actually,  it is a regular part of living. 

A key for me is to not get lost in the seeming unfairness of the situation.  Instead, I am to trust God.  He loves me, and He is wise.  I tenaciously, and sometimes it seems unreasonably, believe that God will work within the matter for good.  And the details, of course, are up to Him.

That's when growth and maturity take place.

James 1:2-4