Conclusions About Abortion: This I Believe
For several weeks now I have been writing about this issue. For the sake of my own sanity and the interest of my readers, I know it is time to move on to other issues. It is time to summarize matters and to clearly state where I stand.
Our homes and religious communities need to be bold in encouraging abstinence before marriage for our teenagers. Some consider this to be "tilting at windmills", but the fact is that many can be persuaded through reason and a strong support system. I agree that lots of teenagers will have sex, but an unashamed and unambiguous moral message of waiting until marriage will make a difference. We are foolish to let the media blast it's attractive and promiscuous message, and not offer an equally appealing and much more healthy alternative.
Since it makes good sense, morally, to prevent teen pregnancy, we need to provide ready and anonymous access to birth control for High School and College students. It should be unrestricted and easily obtained. If a young person is intent to have sex, then to deny access for birth control is not to force him to abstain, but more likely to procreate. I remember entering a new-age type gift shop while on vacation this summer. At the exit door was a box full of condoms, with a sign, "Free. Take One." I thought about it for a moment, and approved. To me, the owner of the store is making a pro-life statement. To prevent a pregnancy is to avoid a possible abortion.
Let's make available the "Morning After Pill". If it is reasonably safe to do so, let's make it available over-the-counter. I'm sure it has some risks. So does aspirin. But I will guarantee you more people will die from pregnancy and abortion than from RU-486.
I support abortion to be legal during the first trimester. Personally, I only accept abortion as morally right during the first 6 weeks of pregnancy, before the beginning of brain waves. But I believe there to be enough questions about the begining of life, and logistical complications, to make it a matter of personal choice between the woman and her physician during these months. Consider: perhaps it will take missing the second period for the woman to be convinced of her pregnancy, or a second month for she and her partner to come to grips with the situation. And it could take several weeks to make arrangement for the clinic and the procedure. And, I think three months is enough time.
I believe Roe-v.-Wade should be truncated after the first three months of pregnancy, except for matters of rape and incest. The woman has had three months to decide to have an abortion for all other reasons. She has now passed the "point of no return". Many ethical matters of life come to this point- so why not the matter of abortion?
Previously I believed it should be strictly a matter of "states rights". But now I am convinced, as with civil rights, such an important matter needs to be governed with uniform law. So I believe that after three months of pregnancy, abortion should be allowed only when a panel of physicians agree it is needed to save the life of the mother or to relieve her of extreme emotional trauma. And, of course, for proven cases of rape and incest.
And, I believe the law should consistently protect the unborn child from the moment of viability. The child should have legal standing.
I am trying to decide upon a label for my position on abortion:
The extreme Right-To-Life crowd would probably call me Pro-Abortion; a murderer, a baby-killer.
The extreme Pro-Choice crowd would most likely label me Anti-Choice; a neanderthol, an idiot.
I'm Pro-Choice, but only for 12 weeks, and only comfortable for 6.
I feel I am Pro-Life, from the moment the fetus becomes a human life.
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Democrats For Life
Democrats For Life is a group of Democrats seeking to persuade their party to support a pro-life position. Recently they have introduced a signature piece of proposed legislation called The 95-10 Initiative. Its goal is to reduce the number of abortions in the US by 95% in the next ten years. They seek to accomplish this task not by a Constitutional ban, but by incremental legislation, education, and economic support. The proposed legislation contains 17 concrete policy initiatives.
Here is a summary of several of these very sensible proposals:
*national toll-free number to direct women to support services for pregnancy care and adoption
*effective, age-appropriate pregnancy prevention education in schools
*on-campus counseling, referral, and day-care service for pregnant college students
*make adoption tax credits permanent
*ban pregnancy as a pre-existing condition in the health-care industry
*provide ultrasound equipment and free examinations for pregnant women
*increase funding to counsel and shelter women and children struggling with crisis pregnancies
*fully fund the federal WIC program
*require parental notification
*mandate state and federal health insurance coverage for pregnant women
Personal Thoughts:
This is a reasonable and I think courageous political group.
DFL provides a convincing PowerPoint Presentation about why the party needs to turn to more conservative social values. I suggest you check it out. While most liberals and the so-called “intelligentsia&rdq uo; may support their extreme positions, a clear majority of Americans do not.
Executive Director Kristen Day has written Pro-Life Politics And The Silent Majority. Reviews and excerpts reveal that she pins a lot of the problems with the extremity of the modern Democrat Party upon the Feminist Movement, which considers pregnancy to be the greatest hindrance to equality of the sexes. It is telling that DFL was effectively shunned by the Kerry Campaign and the DNC in 2004. And it is equally interesting that the group is much better received by Democrat powers of the present.
A list of supporters of the 95-10 initiative is published on the DFL website. I find it encouraging that Harold Ford of Tennessee and Bob Casey of Pennsylvania are on the list, since both could very well unseat incumbent Republican Senators in the upcoming election. Notice that Martin Sheen is also on the list. And, revealing is that almost none of the current Democrat leadership is enlisted.
I'd like to see the emergence of a new group of socially conservative Democrats emerge onto the political scene. I believe the Feminist insistence upon support for abortion for all reasons at all points of the pregnancy to be the greatest problem with today's Democratic Party. This is not the party of yesterday, where Democrat conservatives were a welcomed and vital bloc of the party. I will never support such a radical position, and neither will the majority of Americans.
It would be great to be a social conservative and still be able to consider voting for a Democrat. The DFL can give a social conservative reason for such consideration.
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Put Your Uterus Where Your Mouth Is
The "Brave New World" is upon us. Perhaps, rather soon, the advances of medical technology will provide a solution to the ethical/social debate of abortion.
Call me crazy, but I believe within the next several decades an amazing procedure will be readily available. A three-week-old developing fetus will be able to be removed intact and very much alive, and inserted into the womb of another woman to continue the pregnancy safely and unabated. Let's call this "fetal transplant."
Two ethical dilemmas will result:
(1) Thus, when such a first-trimester abortion is performed, a viable fetus will be produced. It will be outside the body of the woman, and therefore previous argument supporting the termination of the fetus will no longer apply. Will the physician be free to simply dispose of this form of life? I think not.
(2) Millions who are pro-life believe a 3-week-old fetus is a human being. When the possibility of fetal transplant becomes a medical availability, then pro-life women will have a major decision to make. To prevent the termination of a fetus, the woman will be able to volunteer her body to receive the "baby" and carry it to full term. Since there are over a million first-trimester abortions every year, a million pro-life women will be needed to volunteer their bodies to save these little ones from termination.
It's an astounding consideration. It will be an opportunity to effectively end what is called the "holocaust of abortion". But it will involve an amazing proposition. To volunteer yourself to carry a child, that you did not conceive, throughout the complications of pregnancy is an unbelievable request for sacrifice.
But the ones who preach the sanctity of life and wear the "tiny feet" lapel pins would surely be willing to pay the price?
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Wrestling With Roe v. Wade
It is probably the most vilified and celebrated legal decision of our time. In 1973, the U.S. Supreme Court affirmed, by a 7 to 2 majority, the privacy right of a woman to choose an abortion without interference from the state. Thirty three years hence, it is estimated that over 40 million abortions have been performed in the United States.
I am not a lawyer or a scholar, and I do not play one on t-Blog. But I am an interested observer. I have read through the decision several times. Here are some of my thoughts:
(1) The heart of the ruling is the right to privacy.
Interestingly, I understand this to be a fundamental matter of conservative political philosophy. The conservative believes the best government is one that stays out of your life; "...provide for the common defense, provide an infrastructure, and leave me alone!" It sounds to me like Roe v. Wade is agreeable to this point of view. It is saying that what a woman chooses to do with her own body should not be the concern of the government.
Many oppose abortion for religious reasons. I guess my question would be: Do we really want the law to force compliance to religious views? For instance, some feel that Saturday is the sabbath- to be a day of rest from labor. For myself and many others, Saturday is a day of work; I seriously doubt that a substantial number of Americans desire for the law to force a sabbath rest.
I have a philosophical kinship with those who do not like legalized abortion. Surely we can preach, teach, and try to persuade others. But we cannot use the law to force compliance to our religion.
(2) Nowhere does Roe v. Wade address the unborn fetus as a "person".
It goes to great length to question it as a legitimate life deserving the protection of the state. Contrary views of history and even religion are presented.
(3) Interestingly, the ruling does state that the right of the woman to an abortion is not absolute.
The concern of the state becomes more compelling as the pregnancy develops.
*Thus, the state is not to interfere during the first trimester- it is strictly a matter between the woman and her physician.
*During the second trimester, the interest of the state is limited to the assurance of quality and safe health care.
*But, at the point of viability, when the fetus could potentially live outside the womb, then the government could potentially step in to prevent an abortion.
(4) A most troublesome caveat, to me, is the effective limitation of the state in preventing an abortion during the third trimester.
If a woman and her physician believe an abortion to be in the best interest of her health, then it is to be allowed. The matter does not need to be life-threatening, and can include her "mental health".
To me, this appears to allow abortions at any time during the pregnancy for any reason, including extremely late-term, as long as the woman and the physician agree.
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Like I have said, I do not like Roe v. Wade. With my next post, I want to share what I would like to see happen with this current matter of law.
You may be surprised.
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Lesson From A Little Boy
Donnie turned 60 today.
He has been in the hospital for four weeks, suffering the unpleasant results of unchecked colon cancer. I've spent a good bit of time with him since his hospitalization.
Donnie is mentally handicapped. He's been a member of my church for over five years. Sometimes he has been a bit frustrating, but generally he's been a good bit of fun. Usually we will meet in the hallway or sanctuary, and he will have something childish to say, and I'll laugh and give him a pat on the back. I do remember one time he brought a pot of hot coffee into a classroom where I was teaching, and proceeded to pour it onto my arm. It was by accident, and he was about to become upset, but somehow I gritted my teeth and pretended it was no big deal.
Several of us noticed, when we would have a dinner at church, that Donnie would get a big plate of leftovers and carry them out to his car. We figured it was just another of his eccentricities. Then one day he told his Sunday School class he was taking the food to a friend who was homeless. That made me realize that he may have limited understanding of many things, but he seems to be ahead of many in a most important part of the Christian life.
The physician told me the other day that Donnie most likely has two years to live. He does not know the extent of his condition; he just knows that it hurts. Usually when I visit with him he cries. And he worries about so many things. I put my arm around him and pray with him, and he seems to appreciate it. And he counts upon my continued visits. Now his mom, 86 years of age and his guardian/protector all his life, is in the ICU unit, comatose and on a ventilator. Donnie is about out of his mind, not being able to imagine living without her.
The other day I watched him cry as the doctor told him about yet another procedure that would be necessary but also painful. Later I told my wife that he acted like a little kid. She said, “Dave, he is a little kid. He's a little boy.” Then I considered how he, in spite of his fears, told them to go ahead with the procedure. And I thought about how he manages to carry on with life, even though he is losing his mother and so much more that gives him stability. I said, “You know, you are right. He's a little boy. But he is a brave little boy.”
Late tonight, after church, I brought him a card and a monetary gift from the folks at church. Donnie looked at me with misty eyes, and in his little boy language said, “I sure am blessed to have such a good church. It's the best church in the world.”
Buddy, we are blessed to have you. You are one of the finest men I know. Happy birthday.
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Mr. Sperm Meets Ms. Egg
Mr. Sperm meets Ms. Egg; it happens all the time. Much of the time it is an act of passion. Lust, if you will. And it does not take much intellectual fortitude to have sex. Just lust. I know what is on the mind of a teenage boy, a lot, and it is not love. I have a pretty good idea that teenage girls are not quite as sex-driven, but they too share the challenge. When you combine the raging hormones of teenagers with the tantalizing media and our permissive society, you end up with lots of kids having sex. I do not justify it, but I do recognize it. And while I as a church worker wrestle with this dilemma, I find it frustrating that so many of my fellow conservative Christians absolutely oppose the distribution of contraceptives to teenagers. And my words about such inconsistent behavior are in another blog.
When Joey and Judy do the “love tango” in the backseat of the car (or, more likely, in the house while the parents are oblivious), and Mr. Sperm burrows into Ms. Egg, do they immediately conceive a human being? It is a most important question, because I think abortion transfers from a surgical procedure into killing the moment the ending of a human life takes place. So, the question I ponder, is “When does human life begin?”
I find it hard to equate a fertilized egg with a human being. Potential- yes, but not yet.
For the first week the cells divide and multiply, and finally implant into the uturus.
Now, as I understand it, the “morning after pill” (RU486) prevents the cells from continuing to divide, and then a sister drug is administered to expel the cells. This seems to me to be a reasonable form of birth control for the person who messed up by having sex without proper protection. To me, when this is applied in the first few weeks of pregnancy, it is simply preventing the forming of a baby, akin to using a spermicide or IUD device.
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So, when does human life begin?
My wife believes it is the moment a heartbeat begins, which I am told is around 3 weeks. But I wonder if the presence of this one pumping organ, especially in rudimentary form, equates to life? I do know that some are ethically quite prepared to “pull the plug” on a terminally ill person whose heart continues to beat.
Does the presence of distinct brainwaves indicate the beginning of a human life? Such occurs at 6 weeks, and accompanies reflexes and a complete skeleton. I think this to be a compelling point for consideration. It seems to me that someone whose mind is working deserves to have his life valued.
I understand, in years past, the point of “quickening” was when a baby was considered to be a real person. The mother begins to feel her baby moving inside of her body at around 18 weeks.
The point of viability, when the fetus has the possibility of surviving outside the womb, is around 23 weeks.
And, according to interpretation of the law, the fetus only becomes a human being, with individual right to life, after it is born. Not just theoretically, but actually, a 9-month-old fetus can be aborted with support of the law. This seems unreasonable to me.
It is not reasonable to me that a newly fertilized egg is a human being. Neither is it reasonable to me that an 8 ½-month-old fetus is only a potential person. Somewhere between these two extremes, life happens. In my opinion, brainwaves are a key indicator.
What do you think?
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1. A Wrenched Heart: To Choose An Abortion
Black Humor:
Q:
What are the only four categories for which a majority of Americans agree abortion should remain legal?
A:
1. Life of the pregnant woman, or severe threat to her physical health.
2. Rape or incest.
3. Severe fetal deformity.
4. Me.I do a lot of thinking, and struggling,, concerning this matter of abortion.
While still in college, I was friends with a pastor who shared with me a dark secret. As a juvenile, he got his girlfriend pregnant. He did not love her or want to marry; heck, he was still dealing with pimples and High School band. The families of both parties, good church-going highly respected folk, got together and chose to have an abortion. My friend struggled with the matter. The physician told these kids the fetus had an abnormality, but I suspected from the gist of the story that it was suspect but sympathetic opinion loaned for the sake of conscience.
This man has gone on to marry a fine woman and be what I would deem a successful minister and missionary. One time he tried to tell the story to his current wife, but she ran out of the room holding her ears, refusing to listen. Obviously his life would have been significantly altered if he had fathered a child as a teen. Educational opportunities would have been harder to pursue, and opportunities for church leadership less available. I’m not saying he would have taken a different course of life, but it is highly likely. A life-course not worse or better, but different.
And I have a friend, whom I highly respect, who had an abortion as a college student. The unplanned pregnancy left her deeply distressed. At the time, she did not think her religious friends would be very understanding of her situation. She felt overwhelmed. So, while still in the early stages of pregnancy, she took a private trip to an abortionist. The procedure was quick.
She is now deeply involved in Christian ministry. I can honestly say this lady is wise and kind, and a wonderful influence upon others. Interestingly, she is pro-life in her politics. Still, she agonizes over a decision made years ago, as a scared little College freshman.
I share the former to say this: for most people the decision to have an abortion is a gut-wrenching matter. There are exceptions. I do hold suspect those who use abortion as a form of birth control, who can have this awful procedure with seemingly no conscience. But, even those with repeated abortions need to have their story heard, before we paint them all with a broad brush.
We are not talking about sub-par human beings. We are talking about folks who are a whole lot like you and I.
A life-shattering crisis is now before you:
Your maturity and wisdom must help you deal with this matter
Chances are most likely that you are still in need of development in these areas
You need help, support, wise counsel
These may be present, but most probably are lacking
Or, at least you think no one can help
So, given the person you are at this moment
And the magnitude of the crisis before you
You make a choice
Wise or unwise, good or bad, you make a choice
And you live with that choice
And whether or not you and I agree with the choice, I think we owe it to that person to respect the heart and soul that has gone into the decision.
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Abortion: A Series Of Considerations
For the next few weeks, I will be posting on the subject of abortion, and particularly the issue of late-term abortions. I will do so, understanding some things about the issue:
*It is volatile; most have very strong feelings, and many equally strong convictions (the two are not the same).
*For such very reasons, some are reticent to engage the subject. I am asking you to consider letting down your guard, and joining with me in this conversation.
This is a learning exercise for me, as I research, as I develop opinions, and as we interact.
*A healthy conviction should be able to withstand challenging debate
*Emotions are o.k., but should not be the main basis of a public conviction
I understand, for many of us, our views about this subject are inexhorably tied to our religions.
I’m a conservative, evangelical Christian. Most in my camp are pro-life. My particular denomination os strongly pro-life. Yet I believe, as a Christian, that my mind and my heart are both on loan from God. I have a responsibility, to my Lord, to do more than just parrot the words of my religious leaders or to adopt whatever positions find the least resistance. In other words, with God as my helper, I need to develop my own convictions about this matter.
For your sake, I will not be quoting (much) scripture as I share my thoughts. Personally I believe the Bible to be the completely trustworthy guide for life. But, principles of right and good should be able to stand as true without the propping of an authoritative text. Right is right, and not just because the Bible tells me so.
This blog is an open forum.
I have never erased a comment (although I have received some rather nasty ones) and I’ve never blocked a fellow blogger. I do not hide the fact that I would like to influence you. And I would like for you to influence me toward growth as we interact. To do so, we have to behave respectfully toward one another.
As we discuss the issue of abortion, here are some guidelines I would like for you and I to follow:
*Be honest. Tell what is on your mind, and especially what is on your heart.
*Be kind. There is seldom reason to be nasty.
*Be open. None of us knows it all. All of us have room for enlightenment and growth.
Please stay with me through this series. Blogging is inexact, which is good, so I will not promise to stick to the following outline. But, I will try.
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PASTORDAVE CONSIDERS THE ISSUE OF ABORTION
(1) “Mr. Sperm meet Ms. Egg” – now, what?
When does a fertilized egg become a human being?
(2) The Prom-Dress Girl
Why have an abortion?
(3) My Right, My Health
Important Supreme Court Precedents
(4) Opening The Door To The Procedure Room
Language & visuals in the Partial-Birth Abortion Debate
(5) Location, Location, Location
Viability matters, but only a little
(6) The Slippery Slope
Can we meet somewhere in the middle?
(7) Attempts To Be Reasonable
European laws and Democrats For Life
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So, can I count on you to join me for the next few weeks?
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Skylar 6 Months
And whoever welcomes a little child like this
in my name welcomes me.
Matthew 18:5
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Trip To The Georgia Tech Football Game
Brock(my 17-year-old) and I went to see the Georgia Tech vs. Maryland football game today. It was an exciting game between two finely coached teams, and I am happy to say that the Yellow Jackets prevailed.
He is turning out to be a fine young man. He's a good student, making plans now for college and later the military. He chooses good friends, stays away from trouble, and in his own way is rather serious about spiritual matters. And, also being a teenager, I often find him rather difficult to communicate with. He is very private. So, periodically, I try to take such excursions with him. And it is amazing how he opens up when we get together like this. He talks, and we laugh, and it ends up being such a good time. And today was like that.
Here's some more pictures of the day, with brief comments:

Packed stadium, with the Atlanta skyline in the background. People do crazy things in support of their football teams, and Tech fans are no exception.
Here's some action on the field. The Maryland Terrapins are coached by the former Offensive Coordinator of Georgia Tech, and they always put a good product on the field. I watched them run a kickoff back for a touchdown, and make several big plays. It looked like they were going to win. But, Reggie Ball- the Tech quarterback, proved himself to be an exceptional athlete. He was the difference with his rifle arm and slick running. I'd give him the game ball!

I do not know if you can see the tiny church spire, rising up between these two skyscrapers. I noticed, and continued to think about it's significance. Obviously the buildings are bigger, representing the amazing accomplishments of man. But, in my estimation, the "church" (God's family, not a building) will still be triumphant long after these buildings are but dust. And, the picture is also a reminder of the great task of the church in our culture. So much seems so big and intimidating, and the task indeed is huge, but the church absolutely must make an impact upon our day and time.
So, I spent some great time with my son, and my team won. It was a good day.
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Reservations About Iraq
This conservative has some serious reservations about our continuing involvement in the war in Iraq.
I have some questions, but first let me give to you the context of the questioner:
*Understanding the news is important to me, but I’m not a “newshound”; I do not devote hours a day to research and understand the news.
*I think I’m bright enough, but I’m no scholar or genius. I can read a news piece or watch an in-depth report and gain a basic understanding.
Having offered the previous as a self-defence, I am pretty much in the dark with what is happening in Iraq right now, and particularly concerning the American policy.
Here’s some questions needing clarity:
*Why are we there?
*What’s our plan for winning this war?
*How much longer is it going to take?
*Who's in charge?
*When a soldier dies, who cares?
What are our troops doing?
I get the idea, by reading the news, they are basically riding around in Humvees until they inevitably roll over explosive devices, or they stand around on crowded streets until some fanatic walks along with a suicide bomb. We are supposed to be “the gallant knight” who has ridden in upon a white horse to rescue the Iraqi’s from oppression. So, why do these people hate us?
Basically, my support has hinged upon the integrity of our president.
I’ve continued to believe him to be a highly decent man, who has brought us into this war for good and right reasons. The message I have been hearing, for years now, is “Trust me.” And I have….but for how much longer?
Two pieces of news have hit me hard
Highest 3-day Death Toll
BAGHDAD, Iraq - Thirteen U.S. soldiers have been killed in Baghdad since Monday, the American military reported, registering the highest three-day death toll for U.S. forces in the capital since the start of the war.
The latest losses -- four soldiers who were killed at 9 a.m. Wednesday by small-arms fire -- are part of a recent spike in violent attacks against U.S. forces that have claimed the lives of at least 24 soldiers and Marines in Iraq since Saturday, the military said.
Seventy-four soldiers and Marines were killed in Iraq in September, representing the highest monthly toll since April, when 76 died, according to the Iraq Coalition Casualty Count.
Poll Of Iraqi People
The Program on International Policy Attitudes (PIPA) at the University of Maryland has conducted a poll on the war in Iraq.
Here are a few of the poll's findings:
*Six in 10 Iraqis approve of attacks on U.S.-led forces, up from fewer than half in an earlier PIPA poll in January.
*Nearly eight in 10 say the U.S. presence in Iraq is provoking more conflict than it's preventing (as opposed to being "a stabilizing force.")
*Thirty-seven percent want U.S. troops to withdraw within six months; an additional 34 percent want them to withdraw within the next year.
So, let this simple observer of the news put these two together:
(1) The Iraqi people hate us. They support the death of our troops. The guerrilla-killings of our boys and girls is not the tactics of a few thousand al-Qaida operatives, but of the very people we are supposed to be liberating.
(2) 74 soldiers died in September, 2733 have died in total. No- they are more than soldiers. They are brothers and sisters, children loved by their mamas, church members. One of them may have been president, or discovered the cure for cancer. Even that one has died is to be sobering, and it has become angering.
My son wants to be a Marine.
I’m proud of that. And, God forbid, if he were to die for the cause of freedom, it would break my heart but I would stand proud. At this point I do not think I’d trade my son for one more grain of Iraqi soil, or even all of Iraq.
I’ll scan the news again....Now, what are we doing in Iraq?
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Hypocrites Anonymous
"Hello, my name is Dave, and I'm a recovering hypocrite."
(Audience replies in unison)"Hello, Dave. Glad to meet you. We're hypocrites, too."
And, so begins the next session of Hypocrites Anonymous.
I'm a charter member. Please, do not think me to be too bad a guy. After all, I've been sober for 17 minutes.
Oops...there goes a relapse. Where's the phone number to my accountability partner?
Perhaps we should print up some t-shirts and start a website. Really there is no need. Hypocrites Anonymous already meets in a variety of places.
Churches on Sunday mornings.
t-blog.
And, when you sit down for that first cup of morning coffee, at that very place is a meeting of one.
What is a hypocrite?
Comic Milton Berle said, "A hypocrite is somebody who sets a good example when there is an audience around.".
In classical Greek, the word is hupokrisis, refers to stageplaying and acting.
A hypocrite is one who puts on a mask and feigns himself to be what he is not.
Inherent within this definition are two troublesome ploys.
(1) You intentionally mislead others, deliberately selling a lie.
(2) You hold another to a standard of judgment that you are unwilling to hold self to.
We are quick to spot and condemn hypocrisy in others.
And we are quick to defend and justify hypocrisy in ourselves.
Reflections
I have been studying Matthew 23, in which Jesus almost unmercifully lambasts the hypocrites in His midst. I'm not ready to teach/preach this chapter, mostly because I've yet to recover from being knocked down by it.
Here's some applications I'm considering:
*I'm a hypocrite if my behavior shuts the door in the faces of those who otherwise would enter the Kingdom (v. 13)
*I'm a hypocrite if I'm busy converting others to a religion and not a relationship (v. 15)
*I'm a hypocrite if I'm so preoccupied with my faith that I neglect God, and people (vv. 16-22)
*(And, the big one...)I'm a hypocrite if I'm more concerned with your outward conformity than my inward purity (v. 26)
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Conversation With God
God is irritatingly consistent about these things.
Just the other day I was sitting in my office, with God, recalling some connections of the previous week.
Dave: Remember that guy who calls me on the phone? He's gay.
God: I know. I love him.
Dave: And that guy who is always talking religion to me? He can't carry on a decent conversation about anything.
God: Yeah, he and I are working on that thing. I love him.
Dave: How about that lady who insists upon answering my rhetorical questions during assembly. Irritating?
God: Not really. I love her.
Dave: John Kerry? Teddy Kennedy? Osama bin laden?
Gad: Ditto, Dave.
Dave: God you irritate me. I've got some legitimate complaints about these people. Clearly they are poor reflections of what you intend. I criticize, and all you can do is love them?
God: Here. Look in this mirror.
He handed to me the most amazing, reflective mirror I've ever seen; far superior to the dull ones I like to use.
I took a gaze, and dropped my head.
God: Dave, I love you.
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It's about time for another meeting of Hypocrites Anonymous. Would you like to join me?
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