Christianity Confronts Culture: Gender
Here are some thoughts about an understanding of gender from a Christian perspective, culled from a recent sermon.
Scriptures of reference:
Genesis 1:27-28, Genesis 2:18-24, I Corinthians 11:11-12, Genesis 3:16, Galatians 3:28-29
Introductory thoughts
In the Genesis account, the only aspect of original creation that God judged not to be good was for His original man to be alone (Gen. 2:18). To remedy this, the creator did not simply make another male human. God created a woman. She is described in the aforementioned chapter of the Bible as a “helper”, and specifically a “helpmate”. Thus, the genius of human creation: Each is to reflect the image of God, and to do so distinctly as male and female.
Insights:
*Both are equal in relationship with God, and as representatives of God concerning creation
*One is not superior to the other, but complementary
Thus, the “man” and the “woman” were created in such a way that each needs the help of a partner
*One uniquely provides what is lacking in the other, what will especially bring completion to the other
What he lacks, she supplies. What she lacks, he supplies.
*The distinction of the sexes goes beyond mere anatomical triviality. It is a profound and beautiful difference intended by God.
*We would have no problem understanding and living in a truly complementary manner if sin had not entered into the world. It is sin that is the devastating ingredient of interpersonal conflict.
*The restoration of true equality, between man and woman, is found in Christ
*God amazingly and wonderfully allows us, as male and female, to share the gift of love combined with the gift of creating life through marriage.
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Some questions certainly worth asking, and should they be of interest I will be glad to discuss with fellow bloggers:
(1) Does God have gender? (no)
(2) Why did Jesus choose men as his disciples? (culture)
(3) How did Jesus treat women? (respect)
(4) Why do some have conflict concerning basic identity as male or female? (sin)
(5) Is marriage and children intended of God for every person? (no)
(6) What is the role of gender in government? (none)
(7) Must there be differing roles according to gender within the church? (perhaps)
(8) Does being male automatically qualify for higher pay and greater authority in the workplace? (you’ve got to be kidding!)
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Have You Seen My Beautiful Granddaughter? (Chapter 4,128)
It borders upon idolatry, although I don't think I've crossed the line just yet. This concerns shameless fawning over one's granddaughter. We went to the park this morning. I had this grand idea of she and I wading ankle-deep in a little meandering stream. However, the minute her toes hit the icy water, a concerted protest ensued. So we dried off our footsies and enjoyed other things. There were other kids, moms, and nannies roaming the parkgrounds. We all shared the requisite "Your kid sure is cute!". Of course, I knew it to be most true about mine. I sat at the picnic table and listened to moms explain how hard was their jobs. And I replied, "I wouldn't take your job for $100,000." I lied. Skylar tried to play with a particularly chunky kid. He unceremoniously popped her in the forehead, and dashed along. She settled upon a slide, and all was well.
Here's some pictures from the day. Perhaps you can see my smile reflected from behind the camera. Did I tell you I'm her grandfather?



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Five Totally Inappropriate Jokes About Men
What is the thinnest book in the world?
What Men Know About Women
What is the difference between men and government bonds?
Bonds mature.
How many men does it take to change a roll of toilet paper?
We don't know - it's never happened.
What's a man's idea of housework?
Lifting his legs so you can vacuum.
What did God say after he created man?
I can do better than this!
(for an alternative, please view "Four Totally Inappropriate Jokes About Women")
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Four Totally Inappropriate Jokes About Women
One golfer tells another: "Hey, guess what! I got a set of golf clubs for my wife!" The other replies: "GREAT trade!"
Why is a Laundromat a really bad place to pick up a woman? Because a woman who can't even afford a washing machine will never be able to support you.
I date this girl for two years -- and then the nagging starts: "I wanna know your name..."
How do you know when a woman's about to say something smart? When she starts her sentence with "A man once told me...."
(For an alternative, please view "Five Totally Inappropriate Jokes About Men")
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One-Word Comment On The News
So, it is 1:08 a.m., and I absolutely cannot sleep. It is time to try something I've been considering for a while. I'll take ten news items that perk my interest at the moment. And they could be strange because, at 1:11 in the morning, not all the brain cells are functioning. Hey, when did they work in unison? It is now 1:12. The list will include the headline, a link, and one word from yours truly attempting to summarize my opinion. And then I want you to join in. List the numbers, 1-10, and pass along your one-word-comments. Here goes, at 1:14 a.m....
(1) Taking Out The Trash
As discipline for involvement in a drunken fight, coach Joe Paterno will require his Penn State football team to clean-up the stadium after every home game in 2007.
Hoorah!
(2) Selig's Choice
Baseball Commissioner Bud Selig is being advised to stay away from Barry Bonds as he inches closer to inevitably breaking the home run record of Hank Aaron.
Coward
(3) Body Found In River That Of U.S. Soldier
A body pulled from the Euphrates River south of Baghad Wednesday was identified as one of three American soldiers abducted two weeks ago in an ambush claimed by al-Qaida, a relative said.
Rage
(4) Duke Lacrosse Players Seek Extra Year Of Eligibility
Duke hopes the NCAA will give back the year its men's lacrosse players lost during last season's now-debunked rape scandal.
Lawsuit
(5) Oil Industry Says Biofuel Push May Keep Gas Prices Up
Oil industry executives say uncertainty created by the government’s push to increase the supply of biofuels like ethanol in coming years.
Crap
(6) Cheney's Lesbian Daughter Gives Birth
Mary Cheney, the lesbian daughter of Vice President Dick Cheney, became a mother today when she gave birth to a baby boy.
Courage
(7) Zogby: Obama Beats 'Rudy McRomney'
Democrat Barack Obama would defeat any of the three Republican front-runners - Rudy Giuliani, John McCain and Mitt Romney - in a head-to-head presidential election.
Loser
(8) John Edwards: There Is No War On Terror
Democrat John Edwards Wednesday repudiated the notion that there is a "global war on terror," calling it an ideological doctrine advanced by the Bush administration.
Barbie
(9) FDA: Gay Men Still Can't Give Blood
Gay men remain banned for life from donating blood, the government said Wednesday, leaving in place — for now — a 1983 prohibition meant to prevent the spread of HIV through transfusions.
Prudent
(10) 60-year-old N.J. woman delivers twins
Frieda Birnbaum gave birth to “Baby A” at 12:44 p.m. and “Baby B” a minute later by caesarean section at Hackensack University Medical Center.
Lobotomy
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CHRISTIANITY CONFRONTS CULTURE:
THE ENVIRONMENT
Couple of Favorite "Environmental Jokes"
Judge: young man, it says here you shot and killed a California Condor. How do you plead? Defendant: Guilty your honor. Judge: GUILTY!? Don't you know how endangered these condors are? There are hardly any left at all. Defendant: Yes sir, I know, but I had to feed my family, we're so poor. Judge: That's no excuse. I fine you 30 days in jail. By the way, what does California Condor taste like? Defendant: It's real good, kinda like a cross between Bald Eagle and Whooping Crane!
About to bag the groceries, the young clerk asks the customer:
"Do you want to destroy a tree by using a paper bag, or endanger the environment with plastic?"
SCRIPTURE READING
Lev 25:23 (GNB)
(23) Your land must not be sold on a permanent basis, because you do not own it; it belongs to God, and you are like foreigners who are allowed to make use of it.
INTRO:
I'm going to deal with a subject that, most likely, you have never heard a sermon about
Our Stewardship Of The Environment
Environmentalism is a major issue of discussion in many circles
Just not within conservative, evangelical churches
We have allowed it to become so thoroughly identified with the more liberal elements of our society
We have come to view as an economic, or political issue, instead of spiritual
It seems to me the message of stewardship of the environment has been co-opted by liberal groups in America
Same people who speak so angrily and derisively about issues that are bedrock and important to those of us with traditional values- God, church, family, country
Are the same ones who are at forefront of environmental concerns
Popular "flavour of the month" of public issues with many
SCRIPTURAL BASES FOR ENVIRONMENTAL STEWARDSHIP
The scriptures reveal that God is very concerned about nature and the environment. As His children and His representatives, we should too.
God has made a Covenant with every living Creature
Genesis 9:8-9. Then God said to Noah and to his sons with him: "I now establish my covenant with you and your descendants after you and with every living creature that was with you - the birds, the livestock, and all the wild animals, all those that came out of the ark with you - every living Creature on the earth."
Large & Small Creatures Of The Sea
*Psalms 104:25,30. In wisdom you made them all, the earth is full of your creatures. There is the sea, vast and spacious, teeming with creatures beyond number - living things both large and small... When you send your Spirit, they are created and you renew the earth.
Trees Of The Forest
*Psalm 96:10-13. The Lord reigns... Let the heavens rejoice, let the earth be glad, let the seas resound and all that is in it; let the fields be jubilant, and everything in them. Then all the trees of the forest will sing for joy, they will sing before the Lord for he comes, he comes to judge the earth.
Wild Animals
*Isaiah 43:20-21. The wild animals honor me, the jackals and the owls, because I provide water in the desert and streams in the wasteland, to give drink to my people, my chosen.
Clouds & Lightning
*Job 37:14-18. Listen to this, Job. Stop and consider God's wonders. Do you know how God controls the clouds and makes his lightning flash? Do you know how the clouds hang poised, those wonders of him who is perfect in knowledge?
Skies
Psalm 19:1. The heavens are telling of the glory of God; and their expanse is declaring the work of His hands.
An Important Christian Distinction
God is not Nature. He is separate from nature. He is the creator and sustainer of our natural world. I can understand how one can speak figuratively in saying "God is in the sun, moon, and stars. God is in a beautiful sunset, or the rolling tide, or a gentle breeze." In the same way that an artist is in a painting, or a parent is in a child. But God is distinct from nature. We do not worship the creation; we worship the Creator.
That is why I consider it suspect for the Good Ole Boy to say, "I don't need to go to church to worship God. I worship Him best when I'm sitting in the deer stand, and when I'm out on the lake fishing." Now I know one can experience a fine connection with God while out with nature.
Perhaps my favourite place to take my daily walk is McDaniel Farm Park. It is located off Old Norcross Road, really not far from Gwinnett Mall. But when you get back in there, it seems you are a hundred miles away from that busy mall and this crowded county. It's one of the newest of what I have discovered to be a great park system here in Gwinnett County. I don't think this particular park has been discovered by the masses, so it is still relatively isolated. I like to go there early in the morning, around 6 a.m., or late in the evening around 8:00. The trails make a wide and meandering loop of about 3 miles. And except for the isolated jogger, I'll pretty well have it to myself. Oh, there are a couple of Korean families who like to walk together. We will meet along the way. I'll try to give a courteous bow, and they will greet me with a big smile and a bow. Otherwise, I've seen lots of squirrels, rabbits, and some really big deer. There is a stream or two. And there is the Lord out there. And as I go along and enjoy the beauty of God's nature, I also enjoy God's presence. Often I sense a great closeness to God as we take this walk together. We discuss many things. Sometimes you are the subject. And then sometimes there are no words. Just friends. And you know, that can be the sweetest hour of prayer. Just enjoying God, and God enjoying me.
I encourage you to take a walk, and spend some time with God. Don't complicate it. You don't need a notebook, or an ipod. Just God.
And I think that is a vital, almost essential experience of spiritual strengthening. But it is not meant to replace, supplant, corporate worship with fellow believers. When we get together, we do something special. We join together in worship. We join our hearts, voices, minds, prayers, ears, eyes to worship God together. We tie ourselves together and approach God in unison. And it becomes a sweet experience unique and necessary. Just as private worship is unique and necessary. One does not, cannot, replace the other. One alone does not suffice.
Further Consideratio n of Christian stewardship
*Luke 16:1-2,10,13
Luk 16:1 Now He was also saying to the disciples, "There was a certain rich man who had a steward, and this steward was reported to him as squandering his possessions.
Luk 16:2 "And he called him and said to him, 'What is this I hear about you? Give an account of your stewardship, for you can no longer be steward.'
Luk 16:10 "He who is faithful in a very little thing is faithful also in much; and he who is unrighteous in a very little thing is unrighteous also in much.
Luk 16:13 "No servant can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one, and love the other, or else he will hold to one, and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon."
Stewardship implies:
I know the item does not belong to me.
I am the borrower. God is the lender.
I should use it for its proper, intended purpose.
I will one day need to return the item. I should want to return it in as good of shape, or even better shape, than when I borrowed it.
Should I squander, and ruin what has been entrusted to me, then I should expect to be accountable.
Time. Talent. Treasure. Health. Relationships. Spiritual gifts. Bible. Prayer Life.
Equally, I believe we have stewardship of the Environment.
Individually. Corporately.
A Few Practical examples of how we, as Christians, can be good stewards of our world
Some suggestions:
(1) Refusal to disperse trash into our environment.
(2) Use bio-degradable items as much as possible.
(3) Take used motor oil to reclamation centers.
(4) Make use of Recycling Centers. Plastics. Glass. Newspapers.
(5) Use rechargeable batteries.
(6) I think we in America, and indeed in the world, need to be working to reduce the use of fossil fuels and advancing alternative sources of energy. I think it is a spiritual issue.
(7)All of this clear-cutting and bulldozing of land in Atlanta can't be good. When do we say enough?
(8) Voluntary offsets
You know what, I'm just trying to survive.
I understand.
I can't afford to drive an electric car, or install solar panels on the roof of my home
Perhaps you have a business that clears land and builds houses.
Make a contribution to a service that plants trees and reclaims land. They're out there.
(9) Perhaps you drive an SUV because it's safe. Or maybe you thought it was a good investment at the time, but now you are stuck with the payments with seemingly no end in sight.
How to be a good steward? Keep it tuned up. Drive conservatively. Give somebody a ride to church. Donate it to your pastor (just kidding).
Would Jesus drive an SUV? Cadillac? Live in a mansion? I don't have a problem with those things. We all have different pathways of life to travel. Some have been blessed financially. If your financial and material gain has been the result of greed and the love of money, then repentance and change is in order. But a generous and loving person can practice good stewardship and still be blessed financially. I'm not too concerned with how much you have got. And, I don't think, neither is God. Much more important is where your priorities lie. If you are willing to compromise what you know to be right for the sake of personal gain, then there is a problem. That is true with your money, and equally true with the environment.
CONCLUSIONS:
*Live like a shepherd, not like a wolf. Remember, recycling is an act of worship!
*Stewardship of your life begins with understanding Who owns all things, including the world around and including one's own life
*Unwillingness to live responsibly and ethically in a perceived "small matter" like littering or environmental responsibility could reveal a more problematic issue of the heart:
Luk 16:10 "He who is faithful in a very little thing is faithful also in much; and he who is unrighteous in a very little thing is unrighteous also in much.
*Accepting God's rightful ownership of your life, and acknowledging to serve Him first in all areas of life, are essential ingredients of the Lordship of Jesus Christ. Your opportunity at this time is to make a conscious and public decision to commit your life to Him.
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Lesson From A Potato Chip Bag
My home is next door to the church, and both sit directly aside an extremely busy, five-lane thoroughfare. The traffic is abundant and so is the litter. This morning my dog and I got out with two huge trash bags to collect the debris. I'll have to admit humbly that I did most of the work. Basically being a lazy bum, he simply watch ed.
We are situated in a blue-collar, industrial area, amidst warehouses and factories and used-car lots. It is not a very pretty place. But we have determined as a church that we want our property to look clean and neat, a statement to the community that we care. I oversee the care for the lawns. Currently our maintenance is done by a team of young men who are highly friendly and energetic but a bit careless with the details. For instance, they failed to pick up the trash from the roadside, and instead just mowed over it. And I have told them several times that it is time to put down pinestraw. I'm not sure the message zoomed past the ipods and cell phone conversations. So, if any of you fellow t-bloggers would like to bid for our lawn maintenance contract, then I am very interested.
The encouragement not to litter was impressed upon me as a Cub Scout. Our den was returning to camp on the back of an old truck. Casually I tossed a potato chip bag onto the side of the road. The Scout Master asked the driver to stop, told me to get out of the truck and pick up my litter, and then to walk back to camp. Then the truck and the rest of the crew took off and left me. Of course that was child abuse, and today a mother would beat that man senseless and a dad would sue the scouts for a few million dollars. But back in the "olden days", as I meandered back to camp on the dirt road, I had a potato chip bag in my hand and an indelible lesson etched upon my heart. And I've been conscientious about not littering ever since.
To make a habit of intentionally littering is to make a character statement. It is a way of saying "I don't care".
-I don't care that someone else must follow along after me to pick up my trash.
-I don't care that I have brought offense to the property of another person.
-I don't care that I have added financial cost to the upkeep of the roads and highways, an increase bankrolled by the taxpayers.
-I would rather throw this bottle/can/wrapper/cigare tte out the window than go to the trouble of holding onto it and later tossing it into my trash can because my convenience is worth more than any inconvenience I will impose upon you.
Today I collected two huge garbage bags bursting with trash from a 300' highway front. It is an irritating experience. It is irritating that drivers will not slow down, or pull over to the next lane to avoid my endangerment. It is irritating that some would even throw trash from their cars as they see me at work. It is somewhat irritating that so may cigarette butts speckle the sides of the roads. Why do we Americans think we have the right to impose upon and inconvenience others with our bad habits?
But, you know what...all was not bad. In the ditch I found a dollar bill! It was real. It probably flew from a speeding car along with a McDonald's cup. So there's my tip. Thanks, America!
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Mary Winkler, Part II
My question: When does a wife have the right to take a gun and blow a fatal hole into her husband, as he is asleep in bed? And my answer is never.
She attests that he was a controlling and abusive monster, very different from his kind public persona. She said he forced her to carry a cell phone at all times, so he could keep tabs upon her whereabouts. She attested that she could never wear shorts because of the bruises inflicted upon her legs. She testified that he pressured her to have kinky sex, of the non-missionary variety, complete with the use of a wig and high-heels. Revealing to me is that her revelations went uncorroborated by other witnesses. Simply, they were her own statements, although sounding powerful and convincing. But is this the kind of evidence a jury should use to give a pass to a woman who killed her husband with a shotgun as he lay sleeping? Perhaps she did not wear shorts because her fundamentalist faith teaches it to be a sin. And perhaps her aversions to sex with her husband were more related to personal emotional problems than to his aberrant behaviour? Of course we do not know. We are not privy to what has gone on behind closed doors in the Winkler household. What we have is a sad woman with a sad story. But it’s just a story.
I have no doubt that, in her mind, Matthew Winkler needed to be killed. Of course, we will never know how truly evil this man may have been. A dead man cannot defend himself. He cannot tell his story, nor hire legal counsel, nor personally present his case before a jury of his peers. We are left with her admitted pitiable persona from the witness stand. She made a convincing case that her husband was an ugly, ugly man. But, what does a shotgun blast into his back, at point-blank range while he was asleep, say about her?
Let's accept for a moment that he was truly guilty of her accusations. On the day that she fatally shot her husband, were there more appropriate things that she could have done? Earlier that day her husband was busy, perhaps at the church studying or at the home of a paritioner offering counsel. Surely she had time to load her four children into the family sedan and take-off to the Gulf Coast. Or, she could have aimed the gun toward his legs, or blown off his arm. That would have gained his attention concerning her desperate unhappiness. And, if she wanted to be truly dramatic and also prove herself to be a victim, she could have called for a meeting of the church elders and there aired all of her husband's dirty laundry. That would have hit him where it would truly hurt. Or, if there was not enough personal strength for any of the previous actions, then she could have gone to a shelter for battered women., where lots of help and support would have been forthcoming.
She testified that the abuse had gone on for quite some time. But did she confess this to friends, family, or church members? How about a call to 911, or a fellow religious leader, or a professional counsellor? As far as I know, Mary Winkler never made such effort.
Some of us consider abortion to be murder. Using the logic of Mary Winkler and apparently of her jury, it would be but a minor offense of the law to take a gun and end the life of an abortionist. And some of us think George Bush is abusing America every bit as much as Matthew Winkler did his wife. Is a shotgun the answer to this ourtrageous injustice? And God help the persistent Jehovah's Witness who knocks upon the wrong door one too many times. Of course it is inherent upon a civilized society that we work through the proper channels to find justice.
Mary Winkler may have been mistreated. She chose to forego proper channels for grievance although they were readily available. She chose to exercise her own brand of justice with murder. She should pay the price.
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Christianity Confronts Culture: Success & Money
SUCCESS AND MONEY
(Part II of sermon series “Christianity Confronts Culture”)
INTRO:
DIFFERENCE BETWEEN PROSPERITY, RECESSION, DEPRESSION (Illustration): Prosperity – Annoyed because the dog and cat won’t eat the expensive canned food you buy for them
Recession – Delighted. Hope they remain finicky until things get better.
Depression - You begin to look thoughtfully at the dog and cat.
LINER SANK, 2 SURVIVORS (Illustration)
Young man, Middle-aged business man
Young man bemoaned his fate
Businessman confidently, even cheerfully removed a waterproof pack of cigars and lit up
“How can you sit there puffing and not worrying?”, asked the young man.
“Well, I’m a member of the Baptist Church. In 2004, I gave the church a quarter of a million dollars. I wrote a check for foreign missions for $70,000, and gave $50,000 to the pastor’s retirement fund.
“In 2005, business was even better, so I doubled all contributions.
“2006 turned out even better, so I wrote 3 checks for a million dollars each
“Well, it’s now 2007. And I’m quite sure there is a Baptist preacher and 7 deacons who are going to work full-time until they find me.!”
SCRIPTURE AND INTERPRETATION
I TIMOTHY 6:6-12 (NASB)
(6) But godliness actually is a means of great gain when accompanied by contentment.
(7) For we have brought nothing into the world, so we cannot take anything out of it either.
(8) If we have food and covering, with these we shall be content.
(9) But those who want to get rich fall into temptation and a snare and many foolish and harmful desires which plunge men into ruin and destruction.
(10) For the love of money is a root of all sorts of evil, and some by longing for it have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs.
(11) But flee from these things, you man of God, and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, perseverance and gentleness.
(12) Fight the good fight of faith; take hold of the eternal life to which you were called, and you made the good confession in the presence of many witnesses.
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Speaking a warning to those who pursue the faith because they believe it is a means to financial gain
Here is the definition of the highest attainment of life
It is to experience “contentment”
It is the Greek word translated “sufficiency” . It is a sufficiency in oneself independent of others.
Barnes tells us “it is a mind satisfied with its lot”
Have you reached that point in life?
Or…..do you wish you were the other guy?
Do not wish you had what the other guy has
Do not think that happiness/contentment is somewhere up ahead:
Next job
Next relationship
Next pay check
Next church
God’s intent is to place within you a deep-down rest:
With whom you are,
Where you are at,
What you have
Php 4:11
(11) Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content.
So, if you truly desire great gain in your life….then
Allow God to place within you a deep-down contentment
Rescues from a gain-seeking anxiety, the breeder of discontent
REAL POVERTY (Illustration)
“Used to go to KFC and lick other people’s fingers.”
“Garbage man would back up to his house and ask, pickup or delivery?”
“My sister got married just to get the rice.”
9-11
Not just a will to have money and possessions
But, a will to be rich at any cost, and with the greatest of haste
It is a singular focus
That makes secondary all other people, all other pursuits
It puts God into a secondary role in life
It is this wishing that is fatal to contentment
It is why so many wealthy and accomplished people have empty lives
Money is not the problem
It is the idolatry of money
We are not told to cast away riches, but not to trust them!
(I Timothy 6:17-18)
"Root of all kinds of evil"
Enduces a wandering from the faith
Enduces great pain of piercing
Heb 12:15
(15) See to it that no one fails to obtain the grace of God; that no "root of bitterness" springs up and causes trouble, and by it many become defiled;
When you love money…
You measure people by their money
You compare their money to your money
Others become a means of gain
You measure personal worth by your money
You project upon others, and they begin to measure your worth by your money (or lack thereof)
Root of bitterness digs and grows into your heart
Fall into temptation, v9
Wander from the faith, v10
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THE RICHEST MAN IN THE VALLEY (Illustration)
Once upon a time there was a proud man, named Carl, who loved to ride on his horse through his vast estate and pat himself on the back because of his enormous wealth. One day he came upon Hans, an old tenant farmer. He was sitting in the shade of a giant oak about to have his lunch. Hans' hands were folded and he was bowed in prayer. When Hans looked up he said "Oh excuse me sir. I didn't see you." "I was giving thanks for my food and my life".
"Humph!" snorted the rich man noticing the course brown bread and cheese that made up the old mans lunch. "If that were all I had to eat I don't think I would be giving thanks."
Replied Hans, "It is quite enough for me". "But sir, it’s remarkable that I meet you here this morning. I had a strange dream last night."
“And what did you dream?” asked the rich man, with an amused smile?
"There was beauty and peace all around, a yet I could hear a voice, saying “The richest man in the valley will die tonight."
"Ah dreams; cried Carl, nonsense." He turned and galloped away.
"Die tonight!" mused Carl. "It’s ridiculous!" No use going into a panic." The best thing he thought he could do was forget the old man's dream. He felt fine. Well now he was not so sure. Maybe he wasn't feeling all too well after all. He called his doctor. The doctor came over, and Carl described Han's dream, how the richest man in the valley will die this very night. "Sounds like nonsense to me replied the doctor." "But for your own peace of mind let me examine you."
After he was done the doctor was all smiles. "Carl you are as strong and healthy as that horse you ride." There is no way you are going to die tonight".
Just as the doctor was closing his bag, a messenger arrived at the door. "Doctor, doctor," he cried, "come quickly!, its old Hans, I think he died in his sleep!"
CONCLUSIONS & CONSIDERATIONS:
*Allow God to rescue you from a gain-seeking anxiety that breeds discontent
*Money is not the problem, but the idolatry of money.
*Who owns the money? - an important question
*Who owns you? - the most important question
*The deepest riches are held in the heart, not the hand. Like Hans, not Carl.
*You find them within, when God resides. Invite Him into your life.
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Mary Winkler, Part I
It can be tough to be a minister's wife. But it can be even tougher to be her husband.
On the night of March 22, 2006, Matthew Winkler was asleep in his bed. Mary, his wife of ten years and mother of their three children, at some time during the evening took a pump-action shotgun and blasted 72 fatal holes into his back. Instead of calling 911 she ripped the phone from the wall. Then she gathered the children and drove 300 miles to the Gulf Coast, to Orange Beach, Alabama, where authorities arrested her the next day. What caused her to kill her husband was the subject of of a trial broadcast on Court TV and decided by a jury of her peers, being ten women and two men. She was determined to be guilty of a lesser offense of Voluntary Manslaughter, and will be sentenced by the Judge on May 18. She could receive up to six years in prison, but also could walk free.
I would like to spend several blogs commenting on this fantastic and sad story.
Matthew Winkler was a Church Of Christ minister. I am somewhat familiar with this denomination, since it is very strong in my area of the country. They are an ultra-conservative offshoot of American Protestantism, even more so than the Baptists with whom I identify. They do not believe in a professional clergy, and thus eschew the terms "pastor" or "preacher" because they believe such bestows too much authority. They follow a very literal and rigid interpretation of scriptures. Thus it is believed that physical, water baptism is essential for salvation. And, interestingly, musical instruments are not allowed in worship. Church of Christ believes they are the only true church, with Baptists, Catholics, and all others being apostates. Thus they do not participate in fellowship with other congregations.
So, perhaps you could imagine how difficult it could be to be a minister's wife within such a context. I've been a pastor for about twenty years, and know how challenging  ;my profession can be upon family. I am so very blessed at this point in my ministry to be working with a church that treats my family with respect. My wife and my kids take their faith seriously, but they are not your prototypical "preacher's family". And I've encouraged them to pursue individuality in their connections with the church. Through the years, some churches have not appreciated it. I'm thinking that it is surely very difficult for a woman who happens to fall in love with, and marry, a man who has chosen the ministry as his profession. She is not necessarily equipped for the ministry. And she is not a co-pastor. She simply loves a man who is a pastor. Too bad most churches do not understand such. Instead, they so often have unrealistic expectation. She must dress right, and behave properly, and of course serve in all kinds of capacities within the church. Some women are able to handle these expectations well. But I am thinking that Mary Winkler is not one of those.
What is it like to be married to a minister? Mary Winkler went to a Church Of Christ College where she met her future husband. Perhaps she was thinking that such would lead to an idyllic marriage and life. Her godly husband would ever exude the fruit of the Spirit- love, kindness, etc. They would be working with wonderful Christian people. And all would be great- And then, no doubt, shortly into her marriage reality hit. Working for the church was no party. The work was hard, pay was inadequate, and church folk often cantankerous. And that "wonderful" husband proved very much to be an imperfect sinner. Some of these foibles were revealed during the trial. He could be insistant and controlling. Sometimes he proved to be a hypocrite. And he liked to have sex, sometimes in unconventional manners- imagine that. All of these things and more made her uncomfortable, and unhappy.
It is not easy to be a minister's spouse. And it sounds like her husband was a closet-jerk. Or worse. So, on a fateful evening, she took a shotgun and put an end to his ministry and her marriage. I've got a lot of faults. And sometimes I can be a jerk. My wife is quite aware of most of my faults.
I do not have a gun in my house. But, I do have pepper spray.
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Next, I want to consider what Mary Winkler did, and was it her only best option. Stay tuned.
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My Solution For The High Price Of Gasoline
(MY REPRESENTATIVE IN WASHINGTON, DC)
It has now gone up to $3 per gallon around here, & that takes a big bite out of my budget. I guess it was inevitable that it would hit the three dollar mark somewhere along the way, and the American public does not seem overly concerned. Perhaps, if this were election season, then we would hear a lot more pontificating from Washington. But, of course, what do millionaires with lives of privilege and power distinctly seperated from the average working-class American truly care about the trifling costs of gasoline? Nothing. I have a political thought inspired by the fact that it costs me $60 to fill-up at the pump: We should insist upon a part-time, citizen legislature in Washington and in our states. Do not pay these people enough to support lives of privilege as professional politicians. Insist that their legislative sessions be brief, and that they reside in their districts where they work full-time for a living. No more permanent residencies in Washington, no more multiple staffs and profiteering from what is intended to be a position of service. Then, maybe, they would care what we pay at for gas.
05.07.07 (2:21 pm) [
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Friendly Neighborhood Detention Center
Yesterday I made a trip to the County Detention Center to visit with one of our finer church members.
Statistically, I understand, there are more Baptists in the American prison system than any other religious affiliation. I am not sure how to accept this bit of information. Perhaps it means we open our arms to the disaffected and struggling, accepting people who have yet to master many of the ongoing sins that are a part of life. But I suspect it signals it is too easy to be Baptist, that one can readily affiliate with the church without a serious commitment to the Christian faith. As a church leader I have personally thought about this a good bit, and have decided I just cannot determine a moral threshold before a person can be acceptable to my fellowship. Sinners are welcome, because it seems I cannot help but be one of them. Having said this, still I expect a person who claims the name of “Christian” to be serious about his relationship with and commitment to Jesus Christ. And this should prove true in practical and discernible matters of his life.
Actually this young man is not a “member” of my church. He actively attends and we have an ongoing friendship. He is confused and has many troubling things in his life. I think I know of sufficient answers for him and am trying to influence him toward that direction. It is a slow process. I am hoping his incarceration will help to make him more open to a life change. So I pray for him, and so I go to visit him at the Detention Center.
Going through the metal detector is a frustrating experience. Inevitably I set off the alarm several time. The culprit will be my belt, metal implants in my shoes, or perhaps my glasses. Finally the guard will use the wand, and gruffly give me the go ahead. Then I must convince the next guard that I am, indeed, a real minister. I show a bulleting, newsletter, and church letterhead with my name prominently displayed. But she wants a Certificate of Ordination. I’ve been ordained to the ministry for about 25 years, but the paper of authenticity disappeared into my files many years ago. Finally I’ve secured an official-looking card from my denominational office, and it is acceptable. Of course I could have easily forged it in five minutes with Photoshop and a decent color printer, and I have both. But I guess only an idiot would fake his way into prison!
We talk to one another in a little booth, separated by two inch bullet proof Plexiglas. It makes for muffled sound and difficult conversation. I notice in my friend some hopeful signs of change in attitude. Three weeks ago he cockily told me he was glad he was in jail, that he needed the time to clear his head. Also, he was blaming everybody else for his predicament. At the end of that visit, I did not even offer to pray with him, which caught him off guard a bit. But this time he seemed much more humbled. He readily acknowledged that he had gotten himself into this situation. He spoke of how he missed his family and church. We talked a bit about life and God, nothing profound. And we prayed. I have hope for this young man. He turned 25 last month while in jail. It’s time for a fundamental change. In Christian terms it is called “repentance” and even “born again”. I’d very much like to see it happen.
On my way back to the car, which was a very long walk, I started noticing the bumper sticker upon the cars in the full parking lot. They trended toward the conservative. “God Is My Co-Pilot”- I think He should be the pilot. “You’ll Take My Guns When You Pry Them From My Cold Dead Fingers” – If that guy cuts me off in traffic, I think I’ll just smile. “Hilliary Sucks” – Hey, I’m just quoting from the bumper sticker. And there were several various stickers in support of George Bush and our soldiers in Iraq. I was disturbed with thinking that most people in this prison are religious and political conservatives, a lot like myself. But then it hit me, like the dummy that I sometimes tend to be, that these were not the cars of the inmates. They were vehicles belonging to lawyers, prison workers, and mostly family of the incarcerated.
I don’t use bumper stickers. Not political, since over half my church membership do not vote as do I. And not religious, since sometimes my driving habits do not reflect well on the Christian faith. But now I personally know someone who is employed in the manufacture of license plates. And I’ll see him again next week.
05.02.07 (10:30 am) [
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