An Itsy Bitsy, Teeny Weeny Car Accident

I was involved in a car accident today.  The collision itself was minor, for me.  But I find myself a student of human interaction, what followed proved to be interesting study.

The traffic light was about to change, and as I was looking up at the red circle, my car was slammed from behind.  In the mirror the young lady behind me had a look of surprise upon her face, for her car was also hit in the rear.  It was a chain reaction of four vehicles.  The guy in the back was driving an old and heavy jalopy that decided to stall as he was coming to a stop.  At that moment the power steering and power brakes failed, and so he slammed into the next car.  That car suffered somewhat of an accordion affect and will likely not be repairable.  The next one seemed not to be damaged.  My car had a tiny little scratch on the back bumper, and that was all.

The man who initiated the accident quickly checked with the other drivers to make sure everybody was alright.  He was quite apologetic as he explained what had happened.  The lady driving the second car was upset and talking rapidly about how her glasses had been broken and her head was hurting.  And her elderly rider was talking of neck pains.  However both quickly got out of their car and walked around with seeming ease.  As we were calling 911, a man of Asian ethnicity arrived upon the scene.  He was the owner of the car causing the accident, as apparently the driver was his employee.  The rest of us were standing to the side of the road, comparing notes and gathering our composure.  He walked up and quickly spoke with scorn that this was not an accident needing the assistance of the police.  After all, he said with a convincing aire, no one was hurt and neither were the vehicles!  It appeared to me he was intimidating some folks, and so I told him it was our duty to stay put until the officer arrived and that he would best serve the situation by leaving the others alone.

The police officer surveyed the situation, interviewed all of the drivers, and filled out his multitude of paperwork.  As we were talking, he looked at me and asked, "Don't I know you?"  I told him that I was a pastor but do not remember meeting him.  Later, I did remember.  He was one of several police officers whom I met courtesy of my daughter's many brushes with the law!

As time dragged on, I had a nice conversation with the fellow who caused the accident.  He recently moved here from Morocco.  The gentleman for whom he works is now upset with him, and may terminate his job.  I told him, in my opinion, the accident was not his fault but the fault of the crummy car his boss required him to drive.  This seemed to make sense.  Then he asked me about my church and we talked a bit about God.  He told me he was a Muslim, and that in Morocco the Jews, Muslims, and Christians have found a way to get along with one another.  I replied that such is the way it ought to be.  Then he offered to provide free help for our church web site!  I thought that was awfully nice and thanked him for his kind spirit.  To me this was affirmation, once again, that when you move beyond appearances and labels that most people are quite decent.

I told the officer I was not interested in making an insurance claim.  He seemed surprised and walked me to the back of my car and showed me a long indention on the back bumper.  I sighed, and told him that it was compliments of my garage.  For about a half-second I considered that it would be rather convenient to secure a new bumper and perhaps a new paint job courtesy of the situation.  But I was pretty sure that God was watching.

The good policeman said I was free to go.  Figuring I deserved it, I pulled into the nearest McDonalds and had a chocolate milkshake.


posted by: Ladyg (reply)
post date: 07.14.09 (9:55 pm)

What an interesting day that you had PD, glad that you were not hurt and your car damage was small. I sure hope the man does not loose his job, I lived in Morroco for awhile and met some very nice people there.



posted by: auntconi (reply)
post date: 07.14.09 (10:39 pm)

Glad all is well, relatively speaking.



posted by: bawdy (reply)
post date: 07.15.09 (12:21 pm)

You have much more patience during unexpected delays than I do. But it sounds like you used the time constructively. I hope the guy doesn't lose his job, but maybe he will be better off if his boss is such a jerk.



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 07.15.09 (3:11 pm)

PD, I'm so glad you didn't get hurt. And I like your honesty. Out of curiosity, why did you mention that the boss was of Asian descent?



posted by: PastorDave (reply)
post date: 07.15.09 (6:47 pm)

Reply to: rosietulips
Just trying to add some color, some detail to the story, to help the reader to visually picture the scene. Same reason I mention the gender of the other drivers, and the religion of the other man. No slur or prejudice intended.



posted by: PastorDave (reply)
post date: 07.15.09 (6:48 pm)

Reply to: bawdy
He told me, as we stood together under a tree trying to avoid the hot sun, that if he should lose his job that God would take care of him. He seemed a person of simple faith, not too different than the people with whom I go to church.



posted by: PastorDave (reply)
post date: 07.15.09 (6:50 pm)

Reply to: auntconi
Yes, all is well. There are so many cars around here, and so many crazy drivers taking unnecessary risks, that wrecks- and traffic tickets- are quite common. Inevitably you will be involved in a fender bender every few years, and get a ticket or two. I'm certainly keeping the statistics intact.



posted by: PastorDave (reply)
post date: 07.15.09 (6:51 pm)

Reply to: Ladyg
You lived in Morocco? How interesting. I have ab it of wanderlust, and would love to live in another country- for a while.



posted by: auntconi (reply)
post date: 07.15.09 (9:10 pm)

Reply to: PastorDave

Well I am glad to hear all is well. Be careful and stay safe!



posted by: Bonegnawer (reply)
post date: 07.16.09 (1:49 am)

mhmmmmm, choco shake .. :)



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 07.16.09 (10:15 am)

Reply to: PastorDave
I didn't take it as such :) I always wonder the same thing when I read newspaper articles too!!



posted by: surrogate (reply)
post date: 07.19.09 (6:41 am)

I'm proud of you for not taking advantage of the situation, but I'd expect no less. Telling us you had the thought just proves you're still human and not quite an angel yet.

Wonder how some of the older folks in your church would deal with knowing a Muslim was helping with the church web site? - but then they probably don't use it much anyway. It'd be an interesting experiment anyway.



posted by: barnabus1 (reply)
post date: 07.20.09 (2:12 pm)

I'm glad you didn't grab him by the collar and ask, "Have you been saved?" Usually people are just people if one can leave the religion and politics off the table!! It's surprising how totally alike we are!!

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